This transformative book written by the founder of Mindvalley, Vishen Lakhiani. The book is not just a manual for personal success but rather a philosophical inquiry into the nature of success itself. It challenges traditional definitions and encourages readers to redefine their own metrics of achievement. In the book, Lakhiani presents his framework of ’10 Unconventional Laws’ that guide an ‘Extraordinary Mind.’
The 10 Laws
Transcend the Culturescape: Lakhiani encourages readers to challenge societal norms and conventions. What are the beliefs that you’ve unconsciously accepted? Evaluate them and retain only those which serve your growth.
Question the Brules: ‘Brules’ or ‘Bullshit Rules’ are the outdated rules from society that we live by. Identify these, and don’t be afraid to break them if they limit you.
Practice Consciousness Engineering: This is about controlling your inner world. You can change your models of reality (beliefs) and systems of living (habits) to enhance your life experience.
Rewrite Your Models of Reality: Don’t be a victim of your past or circumstances. You can choose your perception of reality.
Upgrade Your Systems for Living: Create new habits and routines that better serve your purpose and help you grow.
Bend Reality: Manifest your desires by having clear intentions and maintaining a state of joy and positivity.
Live in Blissipline: Balance discipline with bliss. Pursue your goals, but don’t forget to enjoy the journey.
Create a Vision for Your Future: Have a forward-looking perspective. What do you want to accomplish? How do you envision your future?
Be Unfuckwithable: Build emotional resilience so that no external event or person can shake your sense of self or inner peace.
Embrace Your Quest: Find your purpose and make it a central part of your life. Your ‘Quest’ is something bigger than you that can positively impact others.
Each of these laws encourages a radical shift in perspective. By implementing them, we can reshape our understanding of our personal world and align our actions with our true desires. By asking questions that challenge the status quo, creating new habits, maintaining a joyful state of mind, embracing our purpose, and building resilience, we can redefine our lives on our own terms.
However, Lakhiani doesn’t just leave it to theory. He provides actionable techniques and tools for each of the laws. For example, he talks about ‘6 Phase Meditation,’ a daily practice which involves gratitude, forgiveness, visualizing your daily intentions, feeling supported, and blessing your day ahead.
Breaking My Addictions Summary
With its combination of philosophy, practical advice, and tools, “The Code of the Extraordinary Mind” presents a roadmap to success that goes beyond conventional wisdom and opens up a new pathway to personal growth and success.
